Children&Parents

Some children don't have any parents. Some have them but they are absent all the time so we could just say that those children don't have them at all. Some children choose not to have parents. Some children aren't given any choice to make.

Some parents are dead. Some parents are "broken", with this I mean that there is only one parent left. Some parents aren't ready to be parents. Some parents have lost they trust with their children. Some parents aren't parents at all.

When a family isn't one. It can be very painful to all. When a family doesn't think in a same way about the leading order, the family can fall apart. When a family is ripped apart, it is the children and the parents who suffer. When a family is broken there isn't anyone why isn't feeling hurt for a split second. When a family finds a way to keep the family together it can actually rip it more apart. When a family doesn't work it just doesn't work.

I wrote this because my older brother is having big family issues and I cannot do anything else than to try support him. But sometimes it just isn't enough. There are thing that we can't change or rewrite. When something is done, it's done. We don't have the "replay" choice in our lives. This is the truth and the fact that we try to avoid at any cost. If you have done something that you regret, don't try to forget it. Think about it, think what did you do wrong and where did you go wrong. Once you find it. Don't try to fix with lies, do it with telling the truth. It might feel hard at the beginning but it gets easier. See ya.

Trust

Hi guys! Long time no see! Today I, as usual, am going to question the things people do. My plan is to talk about trusting other people, but as usual I just might get sidetracks.

We people put our trust on someone every day. We get betrayed more in a one day than we trust in a whole year. To me that ratio seems really off. Is it our fault for trusting wrong people? What really makes people to betray people? There is no simple answer to these troubling questions.

We are taught to trust our own parents, but what if we don't feel that they are trustworthy. What should we do then? Do we just act as if we would trust them? I think acting to trust is same thing as not trusting and what makes it worse is that people really don't know how to act trusting. Troubling, isn't it?

The first time we earn someones trust it might seem to be weirdly easy but it isn't easy for the person who is going to trust you. How could they know if you are trustworthy? But they still bet on you. So please this is my plea don't betray people just because you feel like it. Nothing hurts as much as to be betrayed. It hurts, it really hurts. But there is this thing that can make the betraying even worse, the fact that you have trusted each other for a long time. It is really bad if you do it for some shitty reason.

People who earn the trust easily don't understand the meaning of losing it until they get betrayed themselves. They learn that it really feels bad. But me saying this doesn't mean that I encourage you to have revenge on some idiot who did it to you. Vicious circle doesn't end. And by the time you notice that your trustworthy friends start to doubt you because you betrayed one of your friend it's too late to turn back.

Before doing something regrettable think twice or three times. The more you think about it, the better. You won't lose anything if you just think about it. But don't endure really bad thing. If something really bad is done to you, please don't try to stand alone. As I have said many time before, we are never alone and we should trust the people we love but how do we know who to trust. We don't. We don't need to. It's meant to be like this. We trust and get trusted. We betray and get betrayed. We just don't ever learn.

Even thought trusting someone is risky, do it. Because it is much safer to rely on someone untrustworthy than trusting nobody. My only advice is to take the risk.Trust.

Lost

Today my older brother lost one of his best friends in a car accident. That makes think about the fact that life is fragile and it can easily be taken away. That is why I ask all of you to be very careful out there in the World. Enjoy every small joy you get and treasure all the things around you. I saw this guy just one time but he seemed to be really nice guy. But now that he is no longer here I can never find out what kind of man he really was. So when you want to say to your loved one that you love him/her, say it because it can be late in seconds.

Be careful. Enjoy your life and I hope you live longer than him. See ya

Easier?

Hi! Long time no see, again. Sorry. Just busy and I am kind of out of ideas which is quite unusual. Anyway...

This was once top technology. 

Everyone seems to think that all this technology makes life easier. But now I have come to think that it is the other way around. Yes, some things are easier today but some of them are more complicated than in centuries. It like->press this then press this and that and then write this and that and then press that again and this list goes on and on! Who can say it is not confusing or frustrating!!? I agree that some thing have became a lot better compared to the old days but enough is enough.

So please when you next time get angry to your grandparents because they can't use them, please try to understand. That's all for today. Hope to see ya soon.

In fashion

Hi! It is been long time since I wrote to you and I apologize. School has started again and the start is always full of speed and excitement. Now things have cooled down a little and I have some time for you. Not like you are the last in the to do-list but... anyway. What was I talking about? Oh right fashion!

I just put these together. Nice, isn't it?

I think that it is okay for all of us to have our own styles! We do not need to follow any fashion tips that someone, who has cash like trash, gives us to follow. As IF! Like if ALL of us would wear the exact clothes there wouldn't be anything that would make us different. Well we would part from each other by our faces and personalities but otherwise we would be the same. That would be boring. It is better to be.... your own color... How to say this? You are allowed to be different and you should be. Not like you really HAVE to be different but isn't a lot more fun to stick out of the crowd.

My style has always been and will always be a little bit different from others. I am like mix of every kind of style. That doesn't really sound so good, does it? As you know I am little tomboy. But I am my girlish sides are even with my boy-side. I am not fan of skirts, I am jeans user. But when we are celebrating something my girly side sticks out a lot. It's just that I am too lazy to put my make up on every day and every month. I think the make up loses its "beauty". The saying says the same thing:" A rare flower is more beautiful than regular flower."

This is my small request: Be yourself, please, pretty please. See ya.

Day15

This is what I thought about today. When I got to school at 8.00 am my friend wanted me to look at some writing that she didn't understand. I said it was okay with me. That was the picture she showed, I thought about those words the whole day.

Those words are right and wrong. Because why did you fall in love with another person in a first place when you already love someone?(Let me talk to the end before you drop it) But why can you not love two person at the same time, I ask? But I understand if both of them are like lover-like love, then you have to choose because you will just end up hurting both of them if you don't. That is what we do not want. Don't hurt other people because of your selfishness.

One last advice, do love others. See ya.

Please...

Hi! This will be short but good. This was first published in Voices website and read it from there and it just was too hilarious.

People were complaining about their holiday trips to the traveling agency, and these are the funniest of them:

"We went for a on-day trip to a water park, but how could we have known that the swimwear and towels are not included?"

1. "There was too much sand at the beach we had to clean all our stuff off it when we got back to our hotel."

2. "Being topless shouldn't be allowed at the beach. It was really rude for my husband, because he couldn't relax at all."

3. "Nobody told us that there would be fish in the sea. Kids got so scared!"

4. "We went for a vacation in Spain, but traveling by tax was really hard, because all the driver would talk Spanish."

5. "It took us 9 hours to fly from Jamaica back to home. For Americans it took only 3 hours. That is so unfair!"

6. "There were too much foreign people in my destination. The food was also foreign. "

7. "I and my husband booked a room with separated beds, but we got a room where were just one huge double bed. Now I am pregnant and it is your fault-this wouldn't had happened if we had gotten separated beds."

This is what I thought when I saw them for the first time:

1. Well yes. There is really really much sand at the beach. It is not like someone will count every single grain of sand.

2. Oh...That is extremely unfortunate! Good luck with your husband.

3. Um?! What? Where exactly do you think the fish comes from? From the sea!!

4. Isn't it normal for locals to speak the language that is spoken in the area? Please do learn other languages than just your native language it can be useful.

5. Well let's think it this way. You live further than the Americans. You know that most of the Americans live in America. You didn't? Surprise!!

6. If you go abroad, there is small chance that there will be foreign there, you know. It's foreign land.

7. You could have just used protection. Don't blame others because you were an idiot!

I hope you had a good laugh. It wasn't as short as I expected but oh well. See ya.