Hi! Long time no see. School has been long over and I have been "collecting data" just for you guys so that you guys can read something interesting once in while. Sounds good, right?
Normally people think that women are the ones that have very powerful feeling and emotions but we are wrong. Men have as much feelings and emotions as women have but there is this small thing that we all just don't know. Men don't show them or should I say some of them don't show them. This somehow gives the image of "stone men", men without feelings. That's just wrong. When woman is weak and can't do anything because her heart is broken, that's okay. But when a man is feeling weak or sad or anything like that, that is not okay.
Many centuries ago something changed. Was is because of the World Wars or did something else change? We do not know why this fact changed but we know what changed. This change wasn't deadly so maybe nobody noticed it but now that you think about it, you just happen to notice it.
Why can't men be weak from inside? Why does it have to be the women who are weak? Is it because men need something to compare themselves to? So many questions that nobody never thought about before. Why is that? I think it is because it has been like that for long time, and we all know that what we know is not questioned. But what if..?What if..?What if we think about it as it was other way around? I have hard time imagining it but please you try.
Have we ever thought that when you break up with your boy/girlfriend it might be that it is not just you who is hurt. Sometimes when couple break up both parties are hurt, but why they break up. Mostly because both of them know that it just doesn't work anymore. It can be painful but it can be the right decision for you. Well sometimes it just doesn't work, too bad.
In all movies when the couple breaks up woman is always the one who runs to her friends crying, but what if...man would come running to his friends crying and saying he just broke up with his girlfriend, those friends would mostly think that he is dead drunk or that he is really weird. Or maybe they would pat his shoulder and say that is was good for him and they would take the fact that he is crying as joke or something like that. Isn't that a little bit cruel not to allow men to be sad?
I simply wonder how you do it? Do you run to toilet to "take a piss" but in fact you go there to cry and when someone asks you why your eyes are red you just say it is because you were laughing too hard? That sound ridiculous, but you really do so. I found some of men crying rules, want to hear?(well of course, you have never heard of such thing). Well here we go:
1.When he is alone, the whole house is empty
2.In front of his wife/girl/boyfriend(can't be a racist, that is too mean) when his partner says the famous words "It is okay to cry."
3. He drinks himself dead drunk then cries about it in a bar (that one is maybe the most used in Finland)
4. Don't cry in front of other people, just don't do it.
Woman falls on her knees in middle of the street and covers her face
a.she is not feeling well
b.she is about to puke
c.she is crying
d.her shoes heel just broke and she fell
Things that people do it in that situation
a.don't look, continue walking
b.run for help
c. stare and think if she is pregnant and about to give birth
d.if someone is already helping her, go to help
But if a man falls on his knees in middle of the street and covers his face
a. he is about to puke
b.he is embarrassed about falling
c. he is NOT going to cry, he is just joking around
Things that people do it in that situation
a.don't look, continue walking
b.go closer if he needs help
c.start laughing
d.stay put and stare(maybe they don't know what to do)
e.take a picture or video(this is common nowadays and freaking annoying)
Why can't we be equal?! Think about it.
I look forward this year. See ya.
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