Life is...

spectacular.

Back from London

Hi guys! I apologize for not posting anything while I was in London but I had some technical problems with my computer so writing became impossible. I hope that you are happy enough that I will tell you all about it. I will tell you about my 12 day in complete order. As if I could keep track what happened after what but I think that is not more important than the content. Do you think so too? Oh I am talking nonsense for ever. Let us begin.

Our trouble began on our way to the airport in Finland. But a trip is not a trip if it doesn't have any ups or downs, right? Well those troubles were mostly navigators fault and we ended up finding our way to the airport and we weren't even in hurry. We had enough time to relax and wait for our flight.

"In a while you will feel fine-bag"

When we finally got on our flight, there wasn't any more trouble. Only shocking thing was that just before we landed, like 10 minutes before landing our plane was hit by a lightning. I don't mean to scare you or anything like that and as you can notice I am completely okay and alive. We were sitting perfectly in middle of the plane and when the lightning stuck there was this huge light ball right next to us.

The red dots mean us and that white dot means the light ball

In that picture above you can see where we were sitting and where the light ball was. When I told about this to dad the only thing he could say was:
"WELL WHY DIDN'T YOU TAKE A PICTURE OF IT??!!" Of course I wasn't thinking about taking pictures, the only thing I was thinking was if I and the others would be alive after few minutes later. But nothing happened to the plane and we landed happily. This was the first time lightning stuck the plane for me and I have been in planes a lot so I think this is one in hundred. Nothing to worry about.

This was when we were strolling around the neighborhood

We landed in London Gatwick airport with is not the biggest one in London but I think it was really nice. We got to the city by train and then we took our first adventure by tube. After dragging our luggage around the city we were pretty much tired and wanted to get rid off the heavy stuff. After leaving our stuff to our hotel, which was really nice and cozy, we went to eat lunch. We found this beautiful cafe and from then on we ate our breakfast in there. If you are in the area I recommend you to stop by if you are in the mood for good coffee or cake.

The completely red dots mean the location. 

This shows you the location of Aldgate coffee house. I hope you enjoy your coffee like we did. The rest of the day we just got used to the area and the tube. Saw funny people and things. And hit the bed early.

The real adventures start for here. Tell you more later. Sorry this came so late but I had bad camera problems that I needed to take care of. See ya.

London!

Hi guys! Around a half a year ago I warned you about me going to London. And on this Sunday I will start my journey to London. I will do my best to post while I am in London but I don't know how I can do it with all these things that I have to go and see. I will try my best, so hang in there.

The posts will most likely be short and mostly pictures but once I get home I will tell you all the details that I can. I hope that you will enjoy this trip with me. See ya.

Complicated

Women are the most complicated beings on Earth! Even though I am one of those complicated beings, I still am able to admit that.

It would be good to admit it from time to time. Because it is hundred percent true! One moment we want something and another we don't. First we are angry and really pissed off and soon enough we are all happy and loving. How could men understand women when even women don't understand themselves.

People say that women are more emotional than men. And women have it tough with their emotional ups and downs they complain that men are cold and have no emotions. Well think about this way, what if men showed their emotions as much as women do. Most likely the thing you would think is "gay". That's right! When men show "too much" of their emotion they are mostly branded gay. Here we see one of the usual yes-no problems. Be emotional, don't be emotional.

Everything seems to jump from black to white and from white to black. People don't seem to have knowledge of the between of those two. It's one or another.

That's why I kind of feel sorry for men. Because everything just seems to be all your fault. Putting it all on men's tap is kind of what women want.

That's what ladies like.
That's what chicks dig.
That's what female prefer. 
That's what honeys desire.
That's what babes fancy.
That's what girls are into.
That's what women want.

warning!

This post is written by a person who is really pissed off at their parents and is currently not talking to them.  (Basically this will be me complaining about my parents doing.) You have been warned.

1. When you fight don't bring up your kids. For heaven's sake. Don't do it. You don't need to get your kids involved in some fight that they don't have anything to do with. Far and for most don't use kids as a reason to start a fight. Damn! Don't you really get it. It will only make this kid feel like the fight is their fault and they will feel reeeeeeeeally bad. Plus it can effect the relationship between the kid and parents. Experience talks!!!!

2. If you want to fight about something you really don't need to drink yourself into a condition that you can't even stand. So simply put, don't drink to fight. And to those who are not drunk at the time just avoid the subject. It is that simple. It is not a good idea to try fighting with a person who is drunk. It will get you nowhere.

3. Parents this is very important point that you might really need when you kids are going trough puberty. If you promise something, please I am begging you, keep the promise. Because if you at the time of puberty lose the trust of you kid it will be gone for a quite a time. I telling you. If you want them to keep their promises they insist the same thing from you. If you don't keep it they won't either.

4. Listen to your kids. No matter how busy you are. Try to find some time to listen to them but do this when they want to talk. Forcing kids to talk about thing that they are not ready to talk about it wrong. It can effect the kids self-esteem quite a lot. So two things that you will need are waiting and listening. Sometimes just humming as answer is enough but that doesn't mean that it will always be enough. And of course it would be good to remember the thing that you have talked about with you kids.

5. Talk with you husband or wife about your kids!!!!!!! It is frustrating for the kid to answer the same message over and over again. So please talk about your kids. But if the kid says: "Don't tell dad." You should first think if you husband really needs to know about this matter but if you have come to the conclusion of telling about the matter be gentle. Rule number one: Don't talk about your kids doings in the morning table. Rule number 2: Do it in the bedroom just before sleeping?(the point is that you two are alone in the room when you do it)

6. Don't argue about pointless stuff. It will just make you both stress more. I am telling you. What does it matter if you bough the different type of cereal or bread? Or who cares if the toilet paper you bough is from a different shop than before?

7. Have father time with kids and have mother time with kids. Have family time. Like movie once a month on a night that every one agrees once the month starts.

8. Have rules! Don't spoil your kids! When they grow up their first boss or colleague will most likely be a asshole. The world is not a nice place where everybody says that if you made a mistake it doesn't matter. Their boss will not care if they had a party on Sunday all they will care is the fact that your kid did not return his report on time on Monday.

9. Support your kids!!! No matter if he is a ballerina or fire fighter or salesman he is your son and the same thing goes with you daughter it doesn't matter  if she decides to be an actor or stripper or shoemaker. It doesn't change who they are. Your daughter or son might be gay or something else it really doesn't change the fact that they are your kids. It is okay to be shocked but don't judge them or ditch them. When they tell you that means that they are sure and ready for it but still they wan't your approval no matter how scary it might be.

10. Love them. I think this is not even needed but thinking about it kind of makes it seem more realistic and cute. There is no better relationship that between kid and parents.

Kid loves one's friend for a month, one's wife/husband a year, but one's
father and mother forever!#9gag

Can we love again?

We all love something. Some of us love small things and some adore huge things. But it really doesn't matter what we love it can still be broken. If we lose our love for something can we learn to love it again? Of course the things we love can make us weaker but I personally believe that they make us stronger while making us weak. If we know how to use the things we love we can use them as a source of power or courage. But when we start to question our beloved things they can "turn against us".

Love things that you love. Use them. Have them. Treasure them. Share them. But a one thing we can't sure of is; Can we love again?

Films

We all know that when films end there is usually short clip that tells us what came after the story.
In romance stories the couple will have their first kid or something like that. In action movies the hero finds a new problem or bad guy to fight against. That short clip tells us that the story doesn't just end there. But what if there wasn't that short clip? Would the story end there?

What about in real life? When our highlight of life goes by is the end of the movie? When will we be shown our clip?

No one really knows what will happen afterward unless it is told. But how could someone tell us what comes after. Of course there are fortunetellers but I personally think that they are just guessing. And when someone tries to live up to the fortunetellers words it just might turn ugly. Everything doesn't go as it goes in movies and stories. No matter how hard we try there will be always a new movies in our life series!!!

My advice to all you is this:
Don't try to live your life ahead of it. Live in the moment. Don't live in past but don't live in future. Live now. Have fun! Laugh so much that your stomach hurts. See friends. Don't isolate yourself with internet. Go to the beach. Don't waste your life. Enjoy it. I am asking you to simply live your own life on your own way!