Complicated

Women are the most complicated beings on Earth! Even though I am one of those complicated beings, I still am able to admit that.

It would be good to admit it from time to time. Because it is hundred percent true! One moment we want something and another we don't. First we are angry and really pissed off and soon enough we are all happy and loving. How could men understand women when even women don't understand themselves.

People say that women are more emotional than men. And women have it tough with their emotional ups and downs they complain that men are cold and have no emotions. Well think about this way, what if men showed their emotions as much as women do. Most likely the thing you would think is "gay". That's right! When men show "too much" of their emotion they are mostly branded gay. Here we see one of the usual yes-no problems. Be emotional, don't be emotional.

Everything seems to jump from black to white and from white to black. People don't seem to have knowledge of the between of those two. It's one or another.

That's why I kind of feel sorry for men. Because everything just seems to be all your fault. Putting it all on men's tap is kind of what women want.

That's what ladies like.
That's what chicks dig.
That's what female prefer. 
That's what honeys desire.
That's what babes fancy.
That's what girls are into.
That's what women want.

warning!

This post is written by a person who is really pissed off at their parents and is currently not talking to them.  (Basically this will be me complaining about my parents doing.) You have been warned.

1. When you fight don't bring up your kids. For heaven's sake. Don't do it. You don't need to get your kids involved in some fight that they don't have anything to do with. Far and for most don't use kids as a reason to start a fight. Damn! Don't you really get it. It will only make this kid feel like the fight is their fault and they will feel reeeeeeeeally bad. Plus it can effect the relationship between the kid and parents. Experience talks!!!!

2. If you want to fight about something you really don't need to drink yourself into a condition that you can't even stand. So simply put, don't drink to fight. And to those who are not drunk at the time just avoid the subject. It is that simple. It is not a good idea to try fighting with a person who is drunk. It will get you nowhere.

3. Parents this is very important point that you might really need when you kids are going trough puberty. If you promise something, please I am begging you, keep the promise. Because if you at the time of puberty lose the trust of you kid it will be gone for a quite a time. I telling you. If you want them to keep their promises they insist the same thing from you. If you don't keep it they won't either.

4. Listen to your kids. No matter how busy you are. Try to find some time to listen to them but do this when they want to talk. Forcing kids to talk about thing that they are not ready to talk about it wrong. It can effect the kids self-esteem quite a lot. So two things that you will need are waiting and listening. Sometimes just humming as answer is enough but that doesn't mean that it will always be enough. And of course it would be good to remember the thing that you have talked about with you kids.

5. Talk with you husband or wife about your kids!!!!!!! It is frustrating for the kid to answer the same message over and over again. So please talk about your kids. But if the kid says: "Don't tell dad." You should first think if you husband really needs to know about this matter but if you have come to the conclusion of telling about the matter be gentle. Rule number one: Don't talk about your kids doings in the morning table. Rule number 2: Do it in the bedroom just before sleeping?(the point is that you two are alone in the room when you do it)

6. Don't argue about pointless stuff. It will just make you both stress more. I am telling you. What does it matter if you bough the different type of cereal or bread? Or who cares if the toilet paper you bough is from a different shop than before?

7. Have father time with kids and have mother time with kids. Have family time. Like movie once a month on a night that every one agrees once the month starts.

8. Have rules! Don't spoil your kids! When they grow up their first boss or colleague will most likely be a asshole. The world is not a nice place where everybody says that if you made a mistake it doesn't matter. Their boss will not care if they had a party on Sunday all they will care is the fact that your kid did not return his report on time on Monday.

9. Support your kids!!! No matter if he is a ballerina or fire fighter or salesman he is your son and the same thing goes with you daughter it doesn't matter  if she decides to be an actor or stripper or shoemaker. It doesn't change who they are. Your daughter or son might be gay or something else it really doesn't change the fact that they are your kids. It is okay to be shocked but don't judge them or ditch them. When they tell you that means that they are sure and ready for it but still they wan't your approval no matter how scary it might be.

10. Love them. I think this is not even needed but thinking about it kind of makes it seem more realistic and cute. There is no better relationship that between kid and parents.

Kid loves one's friend for a month, one's wife/husband a year, but one's
father and mother forever!#9gag

Can we love again?

We all love something. Some of us love small things and some adore huge things. But it really doesn't matter what we love it can still be broken. If we lose our love for something can we learn to love it again? Of course the things we love can make us weaker but I personally believe that they make us stronger while making us weak. If we know how to use the things we love we can use them as a source of power or courage. But when we start to question our beloved things they can "turn against us".

Love things that you love. Use them. Have them. Treasure them. Share them. But a one thing we can't sure of is; Can we love again?

Films

We all know that when films end there is usually short clip that tells us what came after the story.
In romance stories the couple will have their first kid or something like that. In action movies the hero finds a new problem or bad guy to fight against. That short clip tells us that the story doesn't just end there. But what if there wasn't that short clip? Would the story end there?

What about in real life? When our highlight of life goes by is the end of the movie? When will we be shown our clip?

No one really knows what will happen afterward unless it is told. But how could someone tell us what comes after. Of course there are fortunetellers but I personally think that they are just guessing. And when someone tries to live up to the fortunetellers words it just might turn ugly. Everything doesn't go as it goes in movies and stories. No matter how hard we try there will be always a new movies in our life series!!!

My advice to all you is this:
Don't try to live your life ahead of it. Live in the moment. Don't live in past but don't live in future. Live now. Have fun! Laugh so much that your stomach hurts. See friends. Don't isolate yourself with internet. Go to the beach. Don't waste your life. Enjoy it. I am asking you to simply live your own life on your own way!

Imagine

Hi! Today I came across something really interesting and I think that we could enjoy our day while thinking about these things. For your information, some of these things have been said by somebody else but some of them are just my simple wonders of the days.

• I am home! When you say that and someone answers to that it makes you feel like you belong somewhere, but when you don't get answer, you will feel so empty 
• Do me a favor, smile! It can really save somebody who is having really bad day.
• It's crazy how I automatically smile when I am talking to you. When you really enjoy somebodies company you will most likely smile without noticing it.
• I said I was over you, but every time my phone vibrates, I wish it was a text from you. Lying to yourself is really painful especially if they tell the same lie to others.
• Never stop dreaming. Once you stop dreaming you can't notice if you have accomplished something.
• Girls adore new shoes. Well some boys do the same thing, but I think that this adoring mode goes past more quickly with boys than girls.
• Love doesn't have to be perfect, it just needs to be true. Fighting is okay and it's normal for couples, it can actually be healthy. Lying is never good. Even white lies can hurt really bad.
• Good things come to those who wait. It is not good thing to try hurry things and end up in a situation that you are not mentally or physically ready for. Wait for it.
• I just sit and think. Sometimes it is good to slow down and really think about things that bother you.
• It's nothing personal, I don't like anybody. Famous words of Dr. House.
• Love is feeling, not a decision. Person can't just decide who they will love and how much. Feeling just don't work like that. We are humans, not robots.

• A few people care, the rest are just curious. The rules of caring.
• What does it mean to really care for someone?
• Every girls is beautiful, sometimes, it just takes the right guy to see it. The beauty of someone is in the eyes of the looking one.
• Don't be another prick in the wall. Be different that's what they say but when you are different you get picked on and yelled at for what they wanted you to be.
• A dream is a wish that your heart makes. Or it is just something that you have been through today.
• You know my name, not my STORY. Just know someones name doesn't mean that you know every single detail about their lives. Even a couple that has been married for 30 years has secrets.
• One day, I am going to wake up, roll over on my side, kiss the love of my life good morning. That is what wishful thinking is called. It will happen when your time is.

• Home is where is can look and feel ugly and enjoy it. Home is your nest, your kingdom, your prison, your safe spot, your fairyland, your all. 
• When someone really cares for you, they make an afford, not an excuse. That's how you know.
• If you love somebody, you'd better let them know. Because if you wait too long it might be too late.
• Love is like the wind, you can't see it, but you can feel it. Sometimes it can be hard to feel somebodies love when you are hurt and you seem to just notice all the loving couples around you.
• A true love story never ends. Well... Why would it end if it is true? Except if they die.
• Love is sweet when it's new, but it is sweeter when it is true. 
• Boys never realize how much one little thing can hurt a girl. Girls never seem to realize how much a little thing can hurt a boy.
• Nobody said it was easy. Nobody said that it would be too hard, either. 
• Parents notice your fake friends before you do. I don't know why but this is true.Instincts?
• I'll be your Tris if you'll be my Four. This refers to the movie, Divergent.
• Everything is OK in the end, if it's not OK, it's not the end. Happy endings theory!
• Forgiving is my gift to you, moving on is my gift to myself. Nobody loses anything with that.
• I admit it, i love you, but it's not worth it anymore. If you don't show that you care and love, you might end up being alone with your loving thoughts.

See ya.

Children&Parents

Some children don't have any parents. Some have them but they are absent all the time so we could just say that those children don't have them at all. Some children choose not to have parents. Some children aren't given any choice to make.

Some parents are dead. Some parents are "broken", with this I mean that there is only one parent left. Some parents aren't ready to be parents. Some parents have lost they trust with their children. Some parents aren't parents at all.

When a family isn't one. It can be very painful to all. When a family doesn't think in a same way about the leading order, the family can fall apart. When a family is ripped apart, it is the children and the parents who suffer. When a family is broken there isn't anyone why isn't feeling hurt for a split second. When a family finds a way to keep the family together it can actually rip it more apart. When a family doesn't work it just doesn't work.

I wrote this because my older brother is having big family issues and I cannot do anything else than to try support him. But sometimes it just isn't enough. There are thing that we can't change or rewrite. When something is done, it's done. We don't have the "replay" choice in our lives. This is the truth and the fact that we try to avoid at any cost. If you have done something that you regret, don't try to forget it. Think about it, think what did you do wrong and where did you go wrong. Once you find it. Don't try to fix with lies, do it with telling the truth. It might feel hard at the beginning but it gets easier. See ya.

Trust

Hi guys! Long time no see! Today I, as usual, am going to question the things people do. My plan is to talk about trusting other people, but as usual I just might get sidetracks.

We people put our trust on someone every day. We get betrayed more in a one day than we trust in a whole year. To me that ratio seems really off. Is it our fault for trusting wrong people? What really makes people to betray people? There is no simple answer to these troubling questions.

We are taught to trust our own parents, but what if we don't feel that they are trustworthy. What should we do then? Do we just act as if we would trust them? I think acting to trust is same thing as not trusting and what makes it worse is that people really don't know how to act trusting. Troubling, isn't it?

The first time we earn someones trust it might seem to be weirdly easy but it isn't easy for the person who is going to trust you. How could they know if you are trustworthy? But they still bet on you. So please this is my plea don't betray people just because you feel like it. Nothing hurts as much as to be betrayed. It hurts, it really hurts. But there is this thing that can make the betraying even worse, the fact that you have trusted each other for a long time. It is really bad if you do it for some shitty reason.

People who earn the trust easily don't understand the meaning of losing it until they get betrayed themselves. They learn that it really feels bad. But me saying this doesn't mean that I encourage you to have revenge on some idiot who did it to you. Vicious circle doesn't end. And by the time you notice that your trustworthy friends start to doubt you because you betrayed one of your friend it's too late to turn back.

Before doing something regrettable think twice or three times. The more you think about it, the better. You won't lose anything if you just think about it. But don't endure really bad thing. If something really bad is done to you, please don't try to stand alone. As I have said many time before, we are never alone and we should trust the people we love but how do we know who to trust. We don't. We don't need to. It's meant to be like this. We trust and get trusted. We betray and get betrayed. We just don't ever learn.

Even thought trusting someone is risky, do it. Because it is much safer to rely on someone untrustworthy than trusting nobody. My only advice is to take the risk.Trust.