Hi guys! Long time no see! Today I, as usual, am going to question the things people do. My plan is to talk about trusting other people, but as usual I just might get sidetracks.
We people put our trust on someone every day. We get betrayed more in a one day than we trust in a whole year. To me that ratio seems really off. Is it our fault for trusting wrong people? What really makes people to betray people? There is no simple answer to these troubling questions.
We are taught to trust our own parents, but what if we don't feel that they are trustworthy. What should we do then? Do we just act as if we would trust them? I think acting to trust is same thing as not trusting and what makes it worse is that people really don't know how to act trusting. Troubling, isn't it?
The first time we earn someones trust it might seem to be weirdly easy but it isn't easy for the person who is going to trust you. How could they know if you are trustworthy? But they still bet on you. So please this is my plea don't betray people just because you feel like it. Nothing hurts as much as to be betrayed. It hurts, it really hurts. But there is this thing that can make the betraying even worse, the fact that you have trusted each other for a long time. It is really bad if you do it for some shitty reason.
People who earn the trust easily don't understand the meaning of losing it until they get betrayed themselves. They learn that it really feels bad. But me saying this doesn't mean that I encourage you to have revenge on some idiot who did it to you. Vicious circle doesn't end. And by the time you notice that your trustworthy friends start to doubt you because you betrayed one of your friend it's too late to turn back.
Before doing something regrettable think twice or three times. The more you think about it, the better. You won't lose anything if you just think about it. But don't endure really bad thing. If something really bad is done to you, please don't try to stand alone. As I have said many time before, we are never alone and we should trust the people we love but how do we know who to trust. We don't.
We don't need to. It's meant to be like this. We trust and get trusted. We betray and get betrayed. We just don't ever learn.
Even thought trusting someone is risky, do it. Because it is much safer to rely on someone untrustworthy than trusting nobody. My only advice is to take the risk.
Trust.
